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Eliminate Barriers Hindering Women Development - Aisha Buhari

The wife of the President, Mrs Aisha Buhari, has called for the elimination of all barriers limiting the progress of women farmers in the country. .

The Osby Blog Is Back

Hi! Am back again after being away for a while. Your favorite ‘The Osby Blog’ and Newsbytes is here again to serve you and keep you updated on current and breaking news you can’t find anywhere.

We'll Return Bill To Buhari for Assent - Dogara.

The Speaker of the House of Representatives, Rt. Hon. Yakubu Dogara, has disclosed that the fourth constitution amendment bill would be re-transmitted to President Muhammadu Buhari for assent.

Getting The Most Out of eBooks.

Do you know you can turn your ideas into an eBook? It’s easy if you know how to go about it. This Book will show you how.

Tuesday, October 29, 2013

George Clooney’s Mystery Lady Revealed


No one thought the world’s most eligible bachelor would stay single for long, so when George Clooney was snapped spending time with a beautiful brunette, it didn’t come as a big surprise.
But, up until today, the identity of the woman in red Clooney dined with at Berners Tavern in London last week was unknown. However, E! has now identified the lucky lady as British lawyer Amal Alamuddin. (A rep for Clooney did not respond to omg!’s request for confirmation.)
Alamuddin, with her long dark hair and exotic looks, is quite different from the “Gravity” star’s most recent ex, blond former pro-wrestler Stacey Kiebler, except for the model-esque physique obviously!
The previously unknown Brit, who attended Oxford University, isn’t afraid of the limelight. Alamuddin specializes in international law, human rights, extradition, and criminal law and is currently representing a very high-profile client: WikiLeaks founder Julian Assange in his fight against Sweden for extradition.


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(Rex USA)
In fact, all of the barrister’s (the British word for lawyer) cases focus on international rights issues and she has frequently served as an adviser to the United Nations, offering guidance on Syria and terrorist attacks in Lebanon — topics that are sure to interest longtime political activist Clooney.
That’s not the only thing they have in common. Alamuddin was voted the most eligible barrister bachelorette in all of London in 2013, a title the two-time winner of People’s “Sexiest Man Alive” crown will surely appreciate.
With awards season just around the corner, and Clooney’s “Gravity” practically a shoo-in for nominations, Alamuddin may need to get ready for much more of the limelight. One thing’s for sure, she’s bound to have great cocktail party conversation!

Body of Missing Minnesota Woman Found in Shallow Grave

 By | ABC News Blogs
A Minnesota woman who was reported missing six months ago was likely killed by a single gunshot wound to the head before she was buried in a shallow grave, police said.
The remains of Mandy Matula, 24, were found Saturday afternoon by a hiker at Mississippi River Park in Stearns County, Minnesota.
According to police in Eden Prairie, Minn., the remains were wrapped in a blanket along with several personal effects, including Matula's high school class ring and a University of Minnesota Duluth Fastpitch Softball pullover embroidered with the number 14.
Matula was reported missing the evening of May 1. She was last seen with her ex-boyfriend, David Marshall Roe, who police have named a person of interest in the case.
Roe had agreed to speak with investigators but shot himself in the head in the parking lot of the Eden Prairie City Center on the afternoon of May 2 before he could be questioned.
Steven Matula, Mandy's younger, brother, told ABC News' Minneapolis affiliate KSTP-TV that even though Roe could have been involved in his sister's death, he wasn't bitter.
"This may have put a bad image on Dave, but Dave, he was such a really good guy. He was a sweetheart. He was a good brother, good friend, a mentor just like Mandy," Matula said. "No one would have ever expected for this to happen from him."

Enugu state First Lady begs human rights groups to release her from house arrest imposed by her husband

This is a strange report. Found it on Sahara Reporters....read below....
Clara Chime, the First Lady of Enugu State, says Gov. Sullivan Chime, has placed her under house arrest, and has cried out for assistance to human rights bodies to rescue her. 
In a letter dripping with pain and suffering, Mrs. Chime (pictured above with Governor Chime) disclosed that she married Mr. Chime in Oct. 2008 but that she has been unable to share the matrimonial bed with him for over four years. Describing her desperate situation, she said that even President Goodluck Jonathan and First Lady Patience Jonathan have intervened with her husband without success.
“My father is late, my Mum and few of my siblings are confused and have done all kinds of prayers they know of, 3 of my siblings prefers me dead than to see me leave the Government house.  He treats my Mum and my siblings bad,” she wrote.

The Enugu State First Lady said she has been introduced to two psychiatrists whose names she gave as Dr. Onwukwe and Dr. Agumo, who have prescribed “all kinds of drugs that ends up keeping me acute depressed and also drives me into hallucinations.”
The doctors, she noted, are scared of her husband the Governor, to whom nobody can tell the truth.
 According to the letter, the Catholic Bishop of Enugu state (Callistus Onaga), and top priests have come to intervene, as have the President and the First Lady of the nation, without success.
Mrs. Chime further complains that Governor Chime has ordered her to leave with her four-year old son whom she conceived before their wedding.  However, the governor, according to her, later threatened to disown the boy should she leave with him.
“He has told everyone he can reach that there is no marriage between us that I can leave if I wish to but whenever I plan to leave he instructs them to lock me in.  I have told him through Sms that I will leave my son behind and leave alone but still he instructed
his securities to lock me inside the house.”
Mrs. Chime further complains she has lost touch with the real world and all that makes her beautiful because of the side effects of the drugs she is taking, stressing that she is under house arrest for committing no crime.
Of the situation in Government House, she said, “He does not take care of me personally, the government gives me allowance to run the house and that's where I save little from to take care of my elf, my Mum and few of my siblings,” she said in the letter.  He shut me out of his life years ago; I don't have access to his apartment. The problem is enormous; I don't know where to start to explain from.”
She said that even the security detail in the lodge has resorted to praying for her, while the few that can be bought with money are taking advantage of the situation.
“Police and SS men have been instructed by Br Sullivan Chime to confine me in a place for a long time now against my wish [but] it is my wish to leave these premises,” she said, begging, “Please assist me to reach to the human rights and say to them to please come hastily and release me.”

Yoruba Actress, Janet Atayero-Oluseye Passes On

One of the most promising actresses in the Yoruba movie world, Janet Atayero- Oluseye has passed on. It all started few months ago when she complained about pains on her foot. The actress battled this for months but lost the battle few days back. She will be missed by her friends and colleagues. She got married last year and was 32.

UK hacker charged with stealing personal data from US soldiers


Charles Dharapak / ASSOCIATED PRESS
Military personnel salute during the Pledge of Allegiance prior to President Barack Obama's address to military personnel who have recently returned from Afghanistan, Friday, May 6, 2011, at Fort Campbell, Ky.
A man living in England has been arrested on charges of hacking into U.S. government computer systems, including the networks of the U.S. Missile Defense Agency and the U.S. Army, and stealing massive amounts of confidential personal data in order to “disrupt the operations and infrastructure of the United States government.”
In one chatroom message quoted by prosecutors, defendant Lauri Love told an alleged co-conspirator, “This stuff is really sensitive … It’s basically every piece of information you’d need to do full identify theft on any employee or contractor.”

Love also allegedly said, “You have no idea how much we can f__— with the U.S. government if we wanted to.”

Paul Fishman, U.S. Attorney for New Jersey, said that Love and his alleged co-conspirators “hacked into thousands of networks,” including many belonging to the U.S. military and other government agencies. “As part of their alleged scheme,” said Fishman, “they stole military data and personal identifying information belonging to servicemen and women. Such conduct endangers the security of our country and is an affront to those who serve.”
Love, 28, of Stradishall, England, was arrested by British law enforcement at his home Friday and charged in federal court in New Jersey. He was indicted on a separate charge in the Eastern District of Virginia.
Prosecutors say that between October 2012 and October 2013, Love and his fellow hackers met in secure online chat forums to plot attacks on U.S. government computers. They allegedly launched attacks that placed computer malware in the U.S. systems, allowing them to return later through hidden “back doors” and steal confidential data.
The systems infiltrated belonged to the U.S. Army, the U.S. Missile Defense Agency, the Army’s Aberdeen Proving Grounds, the Environmental Protection Agency and the National Aeronautics and Space Administration (NASA). The indictment alleges that Love had at least three unindicted coconspirators in Australia and Sweden.
Using the name “peace,” Love allegedly said in a chat room message that, “We might able to get at real confidential s___.” In another exchange, he and a coconspirator allegedly talk about stealing 400,000 emails. In yet another, Love allegedly says, “We own NASA … I think we can do some hilarious stuff with it.”
Love was charged as part of an investigation conducted jointly by the FBI and the U.S. Army’s Criminal Investigation Command. He was arrested by British authorities as part of their own ongoing investigation.
“This investigation shows the necessity and value of strong partnerships among law enforcement agencies worldwide in the fight against cyber criminals,” said FBI Special Agent in Charge Aaron T. Ford. “Cybercrime knows no boundaries, and without international collaboration, our efforts to dismantle these operations would be impossible.”
In New Jersey, Love faces one count of accessing a U.S. government computer without authorization and one count of conspiracy. If convicted, he faces up to five years in prison and a $250,000 fine on each count. In Virginia, he has been charged with one count of conspiracy for alleging hacking into computers belonging to the Health and Human Services Department, the Department of Energy and the U.S. Sentencing Commission.

PHCN workers threaten nationwide blackout by Friday Nov 1

Workers of the Power Holding Company of Nigeria have threatened to go on strike over the non-payment of severance benefits to about 55 per cent of the workforce.
Over 2,000 workers under the aegis of the National Union of Electrical Employees staged a protest at the Eko and Ikeja Electricity Distribution Companies on Monday in Lagos over the delay in the payment of their severance benefits.
The workers, who locked the gates to the distribution companies and prevented people from entering the premises, lamented that most banks had refused to give financial backing to the schedule sent to them by the Federal Government, hence the delay in the payment of the benefits to the majority of them.
For this, they threatened to commence a nationwide indefinite strike on November 1, while vowing that there would be blackout across the country because the workers would down tools if the issue was not resolved before then.
They also gave the Federal Government a four-day ultimatum to address the problem.
The Chairman, Lagos Chapter, NUEE, Mr. Adeleke Ibrahim, who led the protest, said, “The reports reaching the union is that majority of the banks cannot give financial backing to the schedule sent to them by the Federal Government. This means that the government does not have money.”
Ibrahim said if the entitlements were not paid by the end of October, the entire workforce of PHCN in all the 36 states of the federation and the Federal Capital Territory would embark on an indefinite strike.
According to him, the union is not against privatisation of the company, “but government should pay all workers’ entitlements before the new owners commence operation.”
He, therefore, appealed to the government to ensure that all the agreements it signed with the workers were met in order to avert the strike.
Ibrahim said some of the issues in contention included non-payment of retirement savings to the Pension Fund Administrators and non-remittance of dues of two per cent deducted from workers’ salaries to the unions.
Others are non-payment of benefits of retirees who disengaged in 2011 and non-regularisation of the services of some casual workers.
The Federal Government had on Wednesday, August 28, 2013, said it had paid the severance benefits of over 70 per cent of the workers of the PHCN as it worked towards concluding the privatisation of the power sector.
“As of today, we have paid off the benefits of at least 70 per cent of the workers. And as we finish the severance payment this week or next week, the next part will be the pension for the workers,” the Minister of Power, Prof. Chinedu Nebo, had said.
However, the NUEE in a statement in September, protested the planned handover of the power assets to the new owners because of the protracted labour issues that had yet to be resolved.
The union said in a statement signed by its General Secretary, Mr. Joe Ajaero, “Because of the Independence Day ceremonies, we will be patient to allow for full celebrations. However, we hereby urge Nigerians to bear with us if after October 2, 2013 the government goes ahead with her illicit handover to the investors in a forceful takeover; the implication will be that the workers would have technically been asked to withdraw their services and we may not be able to guarantee smooth operations.
“Consequently, if after October 2, 2013, the office of the vice-president fails to correct this misleading information, we shall not guarantee supply of electricity in the country. This is not a threat as our earlier ultimatum has expired.”
While the union continued to engage the government and other stakeholders over the labour issues, President Goodluck Jonathan emphasised that the issues, especially the payment of workers’ entitlements, would not stop the Federal Government from physically handing over the privatised power generation and distribution companies to the private investors soon.
The President said at the inauguration of the 500-megawatts Omotosho II power plant in Ondo State last week, that there was no need for any industrial action by the workers of the PHCN.
He promised that all labour issues would be resolved and that all the entitlements would be paid.

Female Banker, Yagana Ibrahim Bukar Charged To Court For N12Million Scam

The Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC) on Wednesday October 23, 2013 arraigned a banker, Yagana Ibrahim Bukar before Justice Fatu Riman of the Federal High Court Kano on 10-count charge bordering on money laundering and theft.

The accused is said to have abused her position as account officer at Sky Bank Plc and stole N12, 626, 250 of depositors’ fund. She allegedly perpetrated the scam by posting the sum into three Sky Bank accounts belonging to her family members- Hajja Fanna, her sister; Grema Ibrahim Bukar, her brother and her child, Ummu Kulthum.


In order to conceal the illicit origin of the money, the accused allegedly used part of the money to open a provision store in the Kawo area of Kano Metropolis.

One of the charges read; “that you Yagana Ibrahim Bukar on or about 15th August 2011 in Kano within the jurisdiction of the Federal High Court converted the sum N1, 166, 920 (One Million One Hundred and Sixty Six Thousand Nine Hundred and Twenty Naira Only) derived directly from participation in theft by depositing the said amount into the Sky Bank account of Hajja Fanna with the aim of concealing the illicit origin of the resources and thereby committed an offence punishable under section 15(1)(a)(ii) of the Money Laundering (Prohibition) Act, 2011.

The accused pleaded not guilty to the charges.

In view of the plea of the accused, the prosecution counsel, Nasiru Salele told the court to proceed with the trial, adding that his witnesses were ready to testify.
 But the defense counsel, Ma’aruf Yakasai pleaded with the court to admit his client to bail.

Justice Riman adjourned the case to October 25, 2013 for ruling on bail application and fixed Monday, today October 28, 2013 for continuation of hearing.

Culled from Saharareporters

Tinubu's Daughter Installed As The New Iyaloja Of Lagos State

Ahmed Bola Tinubu's first daughter, Folashade Tinubu Ojo has been crowned the new Iyaloja of Lagos State and the President General of the Market Men and Women of Nigeria. The installation took place today at the palace of the Oba of Lagos, Oba Rilwan Akiolu. Bola Tinubu's mum held the position before she passed away recently. Congrats to her.

World's tallest man gets married in Turkey

Ankara (AFP) - Turkey's Sultan Kosen, at 2.51 metres (eight foot three) the world's tallest man, has wed a Syrian woman he called the "love of my life", though he towers over his 1.75-metre bride.
"I cannot describe my feelings in words," the 31-year-old groom said during the wedding celebration in his hometown in the southeastern province of Mardin on Sunday.
"I am the happiest man in the world," he was quoted as saying on the website of the state-run Anatolia news agency.
His 20-year-old bride Mervi Dibo, who hails from the Syrian town of Hasaka, added: "I hope this happiness will be long-lasting."
The groom's black suit was custom made, requiring six metres of fabric, Anatolia reported.
Born into a farming family in southeastern Turkey, Kosen won global fame in September 2009 when Guinness World Records declared him the tallest man in the world. He was then 2.47 meters tall.
His growth has resulted from a tumor affecting his pituitary gland.
US doctors treated Kosen's tumor in August 2010 in the state of Virgina with a precisely targeted shot of extremely high frequency gamma rays, using a non-invasive radiosurgical device known as a Gamma Knife.
Last year, doctors said Kosen has overcome acromegaly, a rare hormonal disorder that caused him to keep growing well into adulthood.
Kosen is forced to use crutches in order to walk.

Monday, October 28, 2013

Photos: Day 3 of president Goodluck Jonathan's pilgrimage to Israel

President Jonathan pictured above praying with other Nigerian pilgrims at the side of River Jordan, the place where Jesus Christ was baptised by John The Baptist. More photos after the cut...


PRESIDENT GOODLUCK JONATHAN LIGHTING A SYBOLIC CANDLE AT THE MOUNT CAMEL CHURCH WHERE THE CONTEST BETWEEN PROPHET ELIJAH AND THE PROPHET OF
BAAL TOOK PLACE.
PRESIDENT GOODLUCK JONATHAN (2ND L) ARRIVING THE BASCILLICA OF ANNOUNCIATION NAZARETH (THE PLACE WHERE ANGEL GABRIEL ANNOUNCED TO
VIRGIN MARY ON HER CONCEPTION). WITH HIM ARE: PRESIDENT, CHRISTIAN ASSOCIATION OF NIGERIA, PASTOR AYO ORITSEJAFOR (2ND R) EXECUTIVE SECRETARY, NIGERIAN CHRISTIAN PILGRIMS COMMISSION, MR JOHNKENNEDY OPARA AND A TOUR GUIDE
FROM LEFT: DEPUTY SENATE PRESIDENT IKE EKWEREMADU; PRESIDENT, CHRISTIAN ASSOCIATION OF NIGERIA, PASTOR AYO ORITSEJAFOR; PRESIDENT
GOODLUCK JONATHAN AND THE SUPERVISING MINISTER OF FOREIGN AFFAIRS, PROF
VIOLA ONWULIRI AT THE MOUNT CAMEL CHURCH

Edo State government denies hosting Dillish? Lol. Stop, please!

So there's a press statement from Edo State government denying hosting BBA winner, Dillish, last weekend. Well, they kinda have a point...they can say the government didn't host her, but Governor Adams Oshiomhole hosted her...and that's fact! She wasn't hosted at the government house, but the governor's private house in Edo state. Dillish and a few other girls were there on Saturday October 19th (for those wondering why she didn't make an appearance at Selly's party in Abuja that day) and I have the low down of everything that went down but I will leave all that out because after all said and done, Gov Oshimhole is a single man. I can also tell you one thing for free, Dillish gave a condition for accepting the invitation..she would only pay a courtesy visit and nothing more. All parties agreed!

Read the press statement

EDO STATE GOVERNMENT DID NOT HOST BBA’S DILLISH.
Our attention has been drawn to a news report in Daily Independent of Friday, October 25, 2013, where one Mr. Eddie Iroh was quoted as expressing displeasure on a rumoured hosting of Dillish, the winner of Big Brother Africa. In the said report, Eddie Iroh was said to have “condemned the Governor for spending state’s funds so recklessly”.

The report added that “ the likes of Governors Oshiomhole, Fashola and Dickson who are in the habit of dipping their hands into public funds on such ventures should have known that in civilized climes, such celebrations were funded from the Governors’pockets and not public funds”. How libelous!

From the above, it is obvious that Mr. Eddie Iroh is suffering from brain wave. First, it would have been a thing of interest for Edo State Government to host the said BBA winner, Dillish, to justify her well-advertised declaration in the BBA House that Edo State people are very hospitable. That in itself was a global endorsement that is purely priceless. Again, if Dillish would agree, as a BBA ambassador, Edo State Government would be willing to host her in future to prove to cynics and naysayers like Eddie Iroh that Edo State is indeed, not only hospitable, but also a safe haven for those who intend to do legitimate business in the State. It will be a departure from orchestrated and concocted stories often peddled by jobless people like Eddie Iroh, who rather than devote their old age to reflect on their absurdities when they called the shots, have now taken to the cyber space for surfing cheap gossip, chit-chat and unfounded allegations.

To the best of our knowledge, Edo State did not host Dillish in whatever material particular. This could be verified from the Governor’s daily routines which are usually available for public consumption and can be confirmed from the Protocol Department of the Governor’s Office or Government House. Mr. Eddie Iroh’s comment is pure hallucination. Eddie Iroh’s story is an open sore that is festered with several incongruities, inanities, ambiguities and failing memory. He should provide evidence to show that Governor Oshiomhole dips his hands into public funds to host his private visitors or simply keep his mouth shut. We have gone past the age of Eddie Iroh, an age of those men of yesterday, who abused public institutions they presided over, to fest their nest at the expense of tax payers’ money. In Edo State, we are not only accountable to the people; we have also earned their respect and trust.
Signed
PRINCE KASSIM AFEGBU
SPECIAL ADVISER MEDIA & PUBLIC AFFAIRS TO THE EDO STATE GOVERNOR

US Senator Ted Cruz apologizes for offensive remark about Nigerians

On Monday Oct. 21st, US Republican Senator Ted Cruz told a rally that Nigerian email scammers have been hired to run the Obamacare website, a comment that a lot of Nigerians found offensive. After being bombarded with several phone calls from Nigerians in Houston and all across the US, the office of Ted Cruz has issued a statement from the Senator apologizing for what he said.
 
The full statement reads:
 
It’s unfortunate that we’re living in a time where just about every joke can be misconstrued to cause offense to someone.
To the good people of Nigeria - a beautiful nation where my wife lived briefly as the child of missionaries - no offense was intended.
I am fully appreciative of the range of mutual economic and security interests that make Nigeria an important friend to the United States.
And even to those few unscrupulous email scammers who were the subject of the joke, I apologize to you for the unfair comparison to the utterly dysfunctional Obamacare website.

NCAA comes clean on N255million armoured cars, says “we have no documents of purchase”

Published:
The Civil Aviation Authority, NCAA, entangled in the controversial purchase of two armoured cars at a quarter of a billion naira [N255 million], for Nigeria’s aviation minister, Mrs. Stella Oduah, appears to be gradually withdrawing its support for the minister and is now claiming it has no documents related to the purchase of the cars.
This appears a veiled way of coming clean that although financial transactions between the NCAA, Coscharis Motors, and the First Bank had been concluded on the purchase, no evidence exists that the cars were ever delivered.
The NCAA made the disclosure in its reply to a Freedom of Information request by the activist lawyer, Femi Falana, who asked for full details of how the agency purchased the two cars at the directive of Mrs. Oduah.
Mr. Falana’s request, dated October 21, 2013, gave the agency the stipulated seven days to respond.
But in its reply two days after, the NCAA’s Legal Adviser, E.K Chukwuma, speaking for the director general of the agency, Fola Akinkuotu, claimed the NCAA was neither in possession of documents showing the purchase, nor was the agency with details of any previous purchase, as requested by Mr. Falana.
“I am directed to your letter dated 21st October 2013 on the above matter (Request for information on N255m armoured cars for Aviation Minister, Ms Stella Oduah) and to inform you that the Nigerian Civil Aviation Authority is not in possession of any document relating to the purchase of armoured cars for the Aviation Minister, Ms Stella Oduah,” the agency was quoted as saying.
“With regard to your request for records of previous purchase of armoured cars by the Aviation Ministry or NCAA, I am to inform you that the Nigerian Civil Aviation Authority does not have such records.”
The NCAA’s claim builds a new kind of pressure on Mrs. Oduah, billed to appear before House committee on aviation, on Tuesday, the same day she is expected to return from Israel as part of a delegation of President Goodluck Jonathan.
The new shocking claim is contradictory of its stand on the scandal all along. The agency had addressed a press conference where it sought to justify the purchase and back Ms. Oduah.
It claimed it bought the cars for the use of the minister and visiting dignitaries. It also insisted to the House of Representatives Committee on Aviation that the purchase of the cars followed due process.
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Sunday, October 27, 2013

Hater and Losers' - Written by Charly Boy

Another interesting piece by Charly Boy. Enjoy...
The other day I was at the departure hall at Nnamdi Azikewe airport waiting for my flight. I was tucked away at a corner, from people's preying eyes, at least so I thought. My flight was delayed so I had about 2hrs to kill. As I reached into my backpack to get my iPad and keep myself busy till boarding time, a man with two teen girls approached me; they were all beaming with the most enchanting smiles I have ever seen.  "Charly these are my daughters, they’ve been worrying me that they want to take pictures with you” I obliged, as their father took position to capture a golden moment for his two teen daughters.
Before anyone could say Charly, the boy in me jumped out. There I was clowning around, making funny faces, as the girls caught the monkeying around bug. And to everyone's entertainment and amusement, we turned the whole departure hall into a photo studio and a runway, hummm! Oh boy come and see. All of a sudden most of the waiting passengers, teens, youths, mums and dads started to lineup for their own Kodak moments. Na who find trouble now? 
It is always at times like this that I feel special and loved, and all I want to do is give back that love to all the people showing me warmth.  Not too far from where I was displaying and forming model tins, from the corner of my eye, I caught a young man probably in his late 30s giving me some very dirty look. I don't think it was his frustration that got his face twisted with those hating eyes that kept piercing my smooth baby skin. Kai!!! If looks could kill, I would have been dead ten times over, no be small tin. You don't need to be psychic to know that the man is not a CharlyBoy lover, but a hater. Yesoooooooo! I may not be James Bond 007, but I assassinated that hater with my smile.
A hater is someone that just can't stand you, usually your success. They hate you for who you are. They are merchants of gossip and all malicious stories about you. They even like to recruit members into their haters club; on the Internet they hold sway. Haters hate you for your accomplishments, youthfulness, attractiveness, popularity, but guess what? Most of the time they don't even know why they hate on you. Some haters come from the lowest social ladder, they are as green and as ignorant as they come, I swear. These "winche" people are everywhere. For haters, hate is the only way they can cope and go on with their lives. They usually suffer some insecurity or inadequacies.
If you are on top your game, you must have haters, no escaping. I rather have real haters than fake fans. It is important to be mature in dealing with these prematures’. Being able to sift through people's envy and bad intention towards you for the valuable truth in their criticism is often a key to being great and surviving people's bad belle and nonsensical jargon. As my head kept playing back some very famous haters in my life and how they chopped all the bull shit and the shenanigans I dished out. A beautiful middle aged woman came to sit by my side. I have been watching you, she said. "How do you manage with people swooping all over you like that" referring to the short drama that just took place.  "I read your articles on Linda's blog all the time, most of all I admire your courage in being your authentic self, how did you build such a thick skin."
If I walk tall, how is that my fault? I live my life the way I please, how is that supposed to affect anybody’s peace. Shame if they think I care, shame if they think I would flair. I no send dem atall atall. Free Me!!!
Haters are usually people with little social consequence to you.  See dem, yahoo boys with no laptop. They are validation that you are a big deal. The more successful you are, the stronger, the more opinionated, I tell you, and the less you will be generally liked. But Hey! Cut yourself a slack and ignore haters.
Instead, focus on turning people who like your dream to people who love your dream. I have noticed that the average or the ordinary don't get bothered by haters, only outstanding people, “weird" people, crazy people, unusual people, in short, people who don't stand up never get stoned at.
Haters hate either because they don't understand or they can't imitate. Little do they know that their hating is their sincerest form of flattery. Haters only hate things they can't get or people they can't be. For me sha! I don't have time for haters, I have ignored
Haters, all my life I just keep doing what I do best, treating others with love and respect always. So! Don't waste your time with this silly hating game! Because dem no  see you dem no send you.

Saturday, October 26, 2013

Dear OIB readers; my hubby is wanted in the US, what should I do?


From a female reader
I've been married to this man for just three years. We have a two year old child together. I just found out six days ago that he's wanted in the US, along with three other people for fraud and email scam. He actually escaped from the country six years ago and has been hiding in Nigeria. He completely lied to me about what he does for a living and lied about everything in his past. He's an American citizen who can't take his family to the US on holiday. His excuses of not wanting us to visit the US was what led me to investigate him and that's when I found out his little secret. Or should I say big secrets. So what should I do now? I don't want to be married to an ex-convict and a liar. He lies about everything, even his name. I think my married name was made up. I'm no longer sure the people he parades as his family are really his family. I'm not sure about anything anymore and I'm now scared of him. Please what should I do? I'm scared shitless..

Friday, October 25, 2013

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Help reporters meet deadlines. Don't make reporters wait on deadline because you neglect to return calls. If you commit yourself to provide information, follow through quickly. If you are unable to obtain the data, get back to the reporter rapidly to inform him or her.

Don't Hide
Try Not to Avoid Questions. Failing to answer a question may give an impression that you are hiding something. If a question is sensitive, give a brief answer and move along. Be alert to major issues affecting your company and find out the standard company response before talking to media. Learn to "bridge over" to a positive statement after responding.

Accuracy
Be accurate. If you discover information relayed to a reporter is outdated, call back the reporter with correct facts. He or she will appreciate your concern for accuracy.

Patience
Be Patient. Don't let it appear as if your time is too valuable to waste on media. If you are busy when a reporter phones, offer to return the call that same day at a more convenient time. Then do it.

Grudges
Don't Hold Grudges. If a reporter has written a negative story about your company, then calls on another story, don't hold back. Your objective is to achieve a professional relationship with the media. Don't let a reporter's previous actions stop you from building the relationship.
 
Industry Spokesperson
Comment on general industry trends. Don't insist on a guarantee that your company will be included in a story. Journalists appreciate the assistance of corporate executives with knowledge of a subject. Most likely, your company will receive recognition in an article. Even if it doesn't, you and your company benefit when you are quoted as a knowledgeable industry leader.

Hospital: Five injured at North Carolina State Fair


By Steve Almasy, CNN
updated 3:40 AM EDT, Fri October 25, 2013
At least two of the victims are seriously injured.
At least two of the victims are seriously injured.
STORY HIGHLIGHTS
  • NEW: Sheriff says two people seriously hurt when ride restarted
  • NEW: State officials says rides are inspected three times a day
  • People were getting off the ride when the incident happened
(CNN) -- At least five people were being treated Thursday night at WakeMed hospital in Raleigh after an incident at the North Carolina State Fair, hospital spokeswoman Linda Fowler told CNN.
Wake County Sheriff Donnie Harrison said at a news conference that two victims were seriously injured.
Jeffrey Hammerstein at Wake County EMS only knew of one person with serious injuries. Another person had minor injuries, he said. He had no details on the condition of the other three victims.
Brian Long, a spokesman for the fair, said the accident involved a ride called the Vortex.
The Vortex restarted while a ride operator was preparing to offload its riders, Harrison said.
Harrison said the ride operator was one of the people injured. The victims included some family members between the ages of 14 and 39.
A spokeswoman for the North Carolina Department of Labor, Dolores Quesenberry, said rides at the fair are inspected three times each day of the 10-day event that is scheduled to end Sunday.
The rides at the fair -- about 100 total, according to its website -- are provided by Powers Great American Midways.
The New York-based carnival company describes the Vortex as one of its "spectacular" rides.

The royal family's official portrait for the christening of Prince George

The official portrait for the christening of Prince George Alexander Louis of Cambridge, the son of the Duke and Duchess of Cambridge and third in line to the throne, was released yesterday. Kate's family is included in the portrait which was shot at Clarence House in London on the day of the christening. See more photos after the cut...



Wait, Stella Oduah followed President Jonathan to Israel?


According to new reports, Minister of Aviation Ms Stella Oduah is currently in Israel with president Jonathan. Stella Oduah left Nigeria on Tuesday while President Jonathan left yesterday. The two are in Israel to sign the Bilateral Air Services Agreement, BASA, with the country.

Pres. Jonathan is also in Jerusalem for pilgrimage. And you guys thought she was under probe? Lol.

Help Chinazom Live: Chinazom Battles Cancer


Obiejesi Chinazom battles cancer and needs your help and support.
Chinazom is a graduate of marketing from the Federal Polytechnic, Oko, Anambra State, Nigeria. Like many young ladies, Chinazom was making her future plans, getting the most out of her life when suddenly she was stopped by a terrible ailment. She was diagnosed of brain tumour in 2011 and since then has been going from one hospital to another. She has been subjected to a battery of tests and treatments with no improvement, and growing weaker by the day.  
By January 2013, she was taken to the University of Nigeria Teaching Hospital (UNTH) where doctors had advised her to undergo surgery in an Indian Hospital.
The amiable 27 year old from Anambra State said that her life took a dramatic turn for the worst after the growth on her head was diagnosed as cancer. Chinazom who comes from a humble background said she had been a huge burden to her poor parents and needs your financial assistance.
We’ve raised some money to pay for the medical tests and some of the patient costs including drugs, but we still need about N5million. All we need is the money to pay for the surgery. The money will be spent on patient travel expenses, hospital bills, accommodation, feeding and sundry expenses for the period of stay in India.
But we can’t do this without your support. She needs your help to have access to surgery abroad. Your contribution can make a big difference and no amount is too small. Every donation counts and will help Chinazom undergo surgery. Your support will enable her bounce back to life, regain her self-esteem and live her dreams.
Attended by her elder sister, Obi Adanna, Chinazom appealed to Nigerians and well spirited individuals to come to her aid. For Obi Chinazom, her only wish is that she will be able to raise the N5 million in order to have surgery in India. She said the surgery will enable her bounce back to life. She is also nursing the desire of serving her country by undergoing the one year mandatory Youth Service, which the cancer has prevented her from doing since her graduation.
Also, her prayer is that President Goodluck Jonathan, the Vice President Namadi Sambo, her Anambra State governor Peter Obi, members of the National Assembly and well-meaning  Nigerians would heed to her call and help her raise the money.
Chinazom added that the intervention of fellow Nigerians would enable her regain her self-esteem and live her dreams.
Those who wish to help her can reach her on 08039325964 or 08136710219. Donations can be sent through Obi Adanna’s First Bank Nigeria Plc account number: 3027644307.
You can also help in any of the ways:
1.     Tell your friends about Chinazom.
2.      Contribute any amount.
3.     Share by Emails, Facebook, Twitter and Google+
Thanks for your show of love and support.